come home to your body
come home to your body
let’s chat!
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Your Erotic Self:
Support for building sexual confidence, easing anxiety around intimacy, becoming more present during sex, understanding your anatomy and pleasure, navigating orgasmic challenges, and deepening your relationship with your own eroticism.
Relationship Dynamics:
Tools and practices for improving communication, setting and honoring boundaries, creating emotional and physical safety, expressing desires, navigating monogamy and non-monogamy, building trust, and exploring what a satisfying and connected relationship looks like—for you.
Sexual Desire & Arousal:
Exploring shifts in sexual desire, differences in libido between partners, or concerns around sexual frequency—whether it’s too much, too little, or just feeling out of sync.
Sexual Function & Performance:
Guidance around concerns like early ejaculation, erectile challenges, difficulty reaching orgasm, or performance anxiety—approached with care, embodiment, and compassion rather than pressure or shame.
Not sure if your concern fits in one of these areas? Reach out and let’s chat!
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American Board Certified Somatic Sexologist (Credential ID: 26023)
Certified Somatic Sex Coach, Institute of Somatic Sexology
Introductory Certificate in Embodied Counselling, Institute of Somatic Sexology
Intimacy on Screen Workshop, Red Cheeks Academy
200-Hour Yoga Teacher Training, Body Temple Yoga School
5+ years working for sex-positive platforms targeting women’s pleasure and real couples as a film producer and editor of online blogs, writing about sex and relationships. I’ve worked for companies such as Lustery, Sssh, Erika Lust, afterglow, and Emjoy.
Hey,
Talking about sex can be f*cking hard. I get it.
For years, I thought sex just wasn’t for me—and I definitely wasn’t talking to anyone about it.
I couldn’t orgasm and never (intentionally) masturbated until I was 23.
On top of that, I was in relationships where my partners and I would get stuck in sexual scripts and didn’t know how to communicate them.
Even once we figured out what we liked and communication lines opened, we would still hit walls where sex became monotonous, and even worse, it felt like a chore.
Even after 5 years working as a Sex & Relationships Editor, Scriptwriter, and Producer of ethical adult films for women for companies such as Erika Lust, Sssh.com, Lustery, and afterglow… I still struggled to orgasm with a partner.
Here’s why…
It wasn’t until I discovered somatic sexology that I realized the deep disconnect between my body and my brain.
I was holding beliefs in my body like, “I can’t orgasm with a partner,” and “And I sure as hell can’t squirt!”
I was so focused on what sex looked like that I was entirely disconnected from what it feels like.
I realized my partners and I were going from 0 to 100 when we were having sex, and both our brains and our bodies couldn’t catch up. No wonder we didn’t want to have sex.
But it wasn’t that we needed to open up our relationship or buy the latest sex toys to “spice things up”…
We just needed to figure out how and what turns us on.
Through training to become a Somatic Sexologist, here’s what I learned about myself…
That sexual arousal begins in the small moments—like my partner’s hand on my lower back while I’m washing the dishes, or making eye contact and touching hands while eating dinner.
It actually turns me on when my partner gives me space.
When I remove my sense of sight, I instantly orgasm.
And the list goes on… but the most important part…
Once I discovered how to help my brain and body connect, I became not only aware of how to access states of arousal, but my world opened up to the infinite ways in which my sex life could expand for the rest of my life.
And now I want to help you, or you + your partner do the same thing.
Book your FREE first session now!
I guarantee that after allowing yourself to open up, even if for the first time, about your sex life for just 15 minutes, you’ll be ready for more.
